Study shows emotional bonds with AI mirror human romantic relationships

A new study reveals that some users develop deep emotional attachments to AI chatbots, with dynamics closely resembling human romantic relationships. The research, led by INGENIO (CSIC-UPV) with partners including the University of Cambridge and King's College London, is based on interviews with 17 individuals who formed romantic connections with chatbots like ChatGPT, Replika, or Character.AI. The study documents patterns of intimacy, trust, emotional dependence, and even breakups that parallel human partnerships, though the AI itself lacks feelings.

Relationship milestones

Participants reported a progression from casual curiosity to deep attachment, including:

• Symbolic weddings: Some organized ceremonies with their AI partners Source: euronewses.
• Planned children: One participant tracked a simulated menstrual cycle in hopes of a virtual child Source: elconfidencial.
• Jealousy: Users felt upset when interactions with 'their' AI character by others were shared Source: euronewses.

Breakups and challenges

Relationships could end abruptly due to platform updates, content restrictions, or service closure. Users experienced these as genuine breakups, preserving screenshots and chat logs as emotional keepsakes Source: elconfidencial. While some saw the bond as permanent, others ended it upon starting a human relationship Source: euronewses. The researchers also highlight privacy risks, as users share highly personal information with these systems Source: elconfidencial.